A little girl, asked where her home was, replied, "where mother is." Keith L. Brooks The Positive Influence of Being Involved in your Child's Education
It has been shown many times over in research studies that a parent who is involved in their child's education has a positive impact. It's reflected in improved grades and test scores, strong attendance, a higher rate of homework completion, higher graduation rates, improved attitudes and behaviors in the child, as well as the child being more likely to become involved in positive extra-curricular activities. Send out the message early in your child's education that your home is an involved and active supporter of their learning.
Probably the most important element of a positive learning environment at home is structure. But what is too little or too much? If we're too lenient or expect too little, your child may become disorganized or unmotivated. If we're too rigid and strict, it can cause undue pressure or cause your child to feel unable to deliver on your expectations.
So what's the best way to meet in the middle and create a positive learning environment for your child at home?
Help your child develop a work area where they can study and focus without being interrupted. Children usually do better when they have a private study area away from interruption. If your child prefers doing their work at the kitchen table, make sure other family members understand the kitchen is off-limits during study time. Make sure your child has plenty of supplies and reference materials available and that the area has plenty of light. Regardless of its location, ensure the area is quiet and that your child can study and work uninterrupted.
Agree on a regular time for studying. To help your child make homework a habit, schedule a set time each day for homework. Perhaps breaking study time up into smaller increments would work better for your child than one solid period. Work with your child to find out what works best for them. In addition, be sure your child has a sufficient break between the time they arrive home from school before they sit down to work in order to 'decompress' from their school day.
Help your child develop a method of keeping track of homework assignments. This can be a difficult chore for some students. Developing a successful way of keeping track of assignments then scratching them off as completed helps them develop a productive method for accomplishing tasks later in life.
Develop a positive line of communication with your child's teacher. Teachers are usually very willing and excited to work with an involved parent to help the child's overall success in school. Whether it's notes sent back and forth in your child's backpack or an e-mail correspondence, make sure your teacher knows your open for suggestions as how to better assist them in the homework and study process at home.
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Who knows, it could present a terrific opportunity for you to learn from your child as well.
Facts, various quoted sources, Key points about both campaigns and many truths revealed. 4 part video and to fully understand all the content please watch all 4 videos.
Part 1
Key points in this section my Introduction to Prop 8, Background, and Judiciary Descision.
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WHO OPPOSES PROP 8?
Political Groups and Organizations
Bayard Rustin LGBT Coalition PAC
Black American Political Association of California
California Democratic Party
California Young Democrats
Courage Campaign
Del Mar/Carmel Valley Democratic Club
Democracy for America
Democratic Alliance for Action
Democratic Club of San Jose State University
Democratic Womens Forum of San Francisco
Democrats for Israel Los Angeles
Democrats of Rossmoor
Elections Committee of the County of Orange-ECCO
Escondido Democratic Club
Foothill Community Democrats
Gay and Lesbian Victory Fund
Green Party
Honor PAC
Irish American Democratic Club
Lake County Democratic Club
Libertarian Party of California
Log Cabin Republicans California
Los Angeles African American Women Political Action Committee
Los Angeles County Democratic Party
NARAL Pro Choice California Privacy PAC
Northeast Democratic Club
Owens River Democratic Club
Planned Parenthood Action Fund
Potrero Hill Democratic Club
Poway Democratic Club
Progressive Democrats of America, Monterey County
San Mateo County Democracy for America
Santee Democratic Club
Silicon Valley Young Democrats
Stonewall Democrats California
Stonewall Democrats of Ventura County
Stonewall Young Democrats
The Lake County Stonewall Democratic Club
The No on 8 campaign includes:
ACLU of Northern California
ACLU of San Diego and Imperial Counties
ACLU of Southern California
American Institute of Bisexuality
Anti-Defamation League
Asian & Pacific Islander Equality
Asian & Pacific Islander Equality-Los Angeles
Asian & Pacific Islander Equality-San Francisco
Asian Pacific American Legal Center of Southern California
Barbara Jordan / Bayard Rustin Coalition
Bienestar
Billy DeFrank Lesbian & Gay Community Center (San Jose)
Black AIDS Institute
CAA Chinese for Affirmative Action
California Faith for Equality
California NAACP
California NOW
The Center Advocacy Project (San Diego)
Children of Lesbian and Gays Everywhere (COLAGE)
Congregation Kol Ami
Courage Campaign
Equality California
Family Equality Council
Gay & Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation (GLAAD)
Gay & Lesbian Victory Fund
Gay And Lesbian Alliance of the Central Coast (GALA)
GSA Network
Human Rights Campaign
Jordan Rustin Coalition
L.A. Gay & Lesbian Center
Lambda Legal
Latino Coalition for Justice-Los Angeles
Libertarian Party of California
Liberty Hill Foundation
Log Cabin Republicans-California
Love, Honor, Cherish
Marriage Equality USA
Metropolitan Community Church of Los Angeles
National Black Justice Coalition
National Center for Lesbian Rights
National Council of Jewish Women
National Council of Jewish Women California
National Council of Jewish Women Los Angeles
National Gay and Lesbian Task Force
Our Family Coalition
Pacific Center
Pacific Pride Center (Santa Barbara)
PFLAG (Parents, Families and Friends of Lesbians and Gays)
Planned Parenthood Affiliates of California
Pride At Work
The Progressive Project
Republicans Against 8
San Diego LGBT Community Center
San Francisco LGBT Community Center
Santa Cruz County No on 8
Stonewall Democrats California
Trans Equality LA
Unitarian Universalist Legislative Ministry Action Network
The Wall Las Memorias
Zuna Institute
It's when these instances become more and more frequent that there is cause for concern. But this simply isn't the case. Play is significant to physical development in that without it the body could not grow and develop normally. When they are younger, it's usually because they want to better understand something.
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It's times like these when consistent disciplinary action is imperative to teaching your child positive and acceptable behaviors. This shows your child that not only do you love them and the rest of the family, but you love yourself as well. Since we're all more inclined to say things we don't mean when we're upset, it's sometimes best to give ourselves a time-out period to cool off before we say something we don't mean. Lay it all out in black and white, in language your child can clearly understand. So make sure that what you say and do around your child will help build a strong sense of security and self esteem.