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Don't laugh at a youth for his affectations; he is only trying on one face after another to find a face of his own. Logan Pearsall Smith, "Age and Death," Afterthoughts, 1931 Handling Conflict about Rules Enforcement at Home
Some parents may worry that setting strict rules may distance them from their children. But this simply isn't the case. Though they may gripe and complain and get upset when you become the enforcer, they realize deep down that this shows you care. These parameters you set forth and enforce make your child feel loved, safe, and secure.
It's never easy developing and introducing rules. Parents may tend to avoid setting rules because they fear confrontation and unpleasantness. But the uncomfortable stuff isn't necessarily a reflection on your relationship with your child, it's just the nature of adolescence - breaking rules and pushing limits is a part of growing up. We tend to want to be our child's friend sometimes, and when we're laying down the law that just isn't possible. Our primary role is to protect, nurture and provide for our children.
When kids break rules, parents often overreact with harsh, disproportionate and unenforceable punishment, which undermines the effectiveness of setting rules. Instead, when you first tell your child about a new rule, discuss the consequences of breaking that rule - what the punishment will be and how it will be carried out. Consequences must go hand in hand with limits so that your child knows what the cost of breaking the rules will be. The punishments you set should be reasonable and related to the violation. For example, if you catch your son and his friends smoking, you might "ground" him by restricting his social activities for two weeks.
Punishments should only involve penalties you discussed before the rule was broken. Also, never issue empty threats. It's understandable that you'll be angry when house rules are broken, and sharing your feelings of anger, disappointment, or sadness can have a powerfully motivating effect on your child. Since we're all more inclined to say things we don't mean when we're upset, it's sometimes best to give ourselves a time-out period to cool off before we say something we don't mean.
Make the ground rules crystal clear to your child. It's imperative that you are consistent and follow through with a defined disciplinary action after each infraction, and that your child understands the reasons why.
Parenting Discipline
A child may not need us to be as directly involved with their schooling to ensure their overall academic success, but they may need us to be more involved in their social life as they may be feeling a bit shaky or scared when it comes to making new friends or meeting new people.
I was listening to DJ NYK,and I came across this album.All the songs soundede good,So I mixed parts of all the 10 songs as in like a Preview of the album and what it sounds like.
Progressive Grooves is a group of labels publishing electronic music from all genres.
It was 1992 and Michael, an avid player of the drums and guitar, was in wonderment at the sounds that were pulsating through his head. He was 17 years old, and fate had led him to foreign, but marvelous territory. He stood in the middle of a dance floor, transfixed and transfused in the other hundred or so club-goers, whom were going about their weekend routines. It was the beginning to a new life, one with endless boundaries and possibilities. Michael had been awoken by the limitless light of Dance Music, and realized his passion for music had only just begun.
Mikas was born Michael Anguelov, in 1975 Quebec, Canada. He grew up with his parents and sister in Quebec City. Unlike many families, his parents believed that giving their child more freedom to explore his own path, would lead to success and happiness. Everyone in his family shared the same talent of artistic expression, and fortunately Michael would too. His father is well practiced, and proficient in music, painting, and sculpting. Likewise is his mother, who has made her living through writing and the arts.
Ten years after his birth, he began taking clarinet lessons, but like any elementary student, disliked the repetitive theory and constricted environment that discouraged open creativity and freedom. It wasn't until two years later that he discovered Rock music, and then Heavy Metal. Obsessively taking in the thrashing riffs, and pounding drum solos day after day mesmerized him, and gave him dreams of one day too becoming a rock star. After buying record after record, Michael had decided it was his turn to play the music; this is when he bought his first drum set.
Fast-forward to three years after his introduction to Dance Music, 1995. Michael now had himself a set of turntables and a mixer, and never neglected partying on the weekend club scene. By then, being an accomplished guitarist and drummer, mixing was an easy transition for the 20-year-old. He found his way onto the stage, staring at the same dance floor where he once stood, only a few years earlier. He dedicated the next years of his twenties to the Quebec City party circuit, until he found a chance to manage an after-hours club. Now with a new medium to display his DJ skills, as well as a professional career learning the trade of the club scene, there was only one step left to take; music production.
In a dissuading turn of events, the club that Michael once ran was shut down by Quebec authority, leaving him with nothing but some savings, two turntables, and a mixer. He took his chances, and moved to Montreal to focus on his music career. Year after year, his sound evolved as did his character, and a unique sound was born as well as his new artist name, Mikas. He built himself on the idea of being different from the rest, and found himself in the uniqueness of his progressive drums and melodies. Always finding himself fascinated with the complexities and intricacies of audio synthesis and technology, Mikas had finally accomplished his dream of being behind the energy that drives us to the dancefloor. If you listen to one of his songs, just allow yourself to appreciate what this artist has been striving for the duration of his life; inspiring people to listen, and inspiring them to dance.
Today, he finds himself on the opposite coast of Canada from where he began. Mikas now spends most of his time producing, and in 2005 launched his own successful label, Progressive Grooves. He has found almost immediate success with the critical acclaim of the label's first EP: Closer to Your Dreams. It was also world renown in support from Major DJ's around the world. This September he released The Spirit Emotion Song, which charted as a multiple best-selling song on the internet. December marked his debut double-album, which permanently engraved his mark on progressive dance music. He now has published popular artists from all over the world, and is receiving astounding recognition and support from other big names in the scene. This spring he releases Emotional, a double-disc compilation with an exclusive one hour mix from Mikas himself, and special unreleased features from the entire Progressive Grooves label. He's touring throughout North America this summer, and is becoming one of the most promising musicians in progressive dance music today.
The connection between good deeds and special time with mom and/or dad might be just the currency they understand. Children thrive on stability and routines, so plan your quality times so that they can take place regularly. In order to discourage bad behavior, give your child choices about what to do. You probably know from experience and mistakes how important it is to be consistent, firm and to always follow through with designated disciplinary consequences.
And when you see such action or behaviors, praise immediately so the child will know exactly what behavior or action was deemed praiseworthy.
Be there to encourage and support your child, and offer praise at a job well done. Sometimes parents do not set limits because they don't want to fight with their children. It's times like these when consistent disciplinary action is imperative to teaching your child positive and acceptable behaviors.
